About Postpartum Anxiety

"My mind could not stop racing. I kept thinking about terrible things happening to my baby. I could barely leave the house."
Postpartum anxiety can include symptoms like worry, fear, irritability, and panic attacks.
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Key Takeaways

  • Postpartum anxiety (PPA) affects 1 in 5 new mothers, making it the most common perinatal mood and anxiety disorder (PMAD).

  • Common symptoms of of postpartum anxiety include worry, fear, irritability, racing thoughts, and panic attacks.

  • Effective treatments include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), medication, and lifestyle changes.

  • Early intervention is crucial for managing postpartum anxiety symptoms and supporting maternal well-being.

  • Therapy can help mothers with postpartum anxiety change the thoughts that are contributing to their anxiety and introduce coping skills to manage their symptoms.

What is Postpartum Anxiety?

Postpartum anxiety, also known as perinatal anxiety or PPA, is a type of perinatal mood and anxiety disorder (PMAD) that affects approximately 20% of new mothers. Women with postpartum anxiety experience persistent worry, fear, and other distressing symptoms that impact their mental health and ability to care for their infant. 

Postpartum anxiety can feel like your mind is a constant whirlpool, always spinning with worries and “what-ifs.” Imagine trying to float in a calm lake, but someone keeps tossing pebbles in, and each tiny splash sends ripples that throw you off balance. You might be holding your baby, but your thoughts are miles away, consumed by fears that haven’t happened yet—like an overwhelming "what if" that keeps circling back. And it’s not just in your head; it’s in your body too—tight shoulders, a racing heart, that restless energy that makes it hard to relax, even when you desperately want to. 

How common is postpartum anxiety?

Roughly 20% of new mothers experience PPA after pregnancy, making it the most common PMAD, even more common than postpartum depression. The study of these disorders shows a significant prevalence among postpartum women in the weeks following delivery of the new baby. Despite its high occurrence, PPA often goes undiagnosed and untreated because many mothers assume their anxiety is a normal part of new motherhood after pregnancy. Early identification and treatment are crucial, especially for those who may be at higher risk due to factors like a history of anxiety disorders or lack of family support. 

Mothers with PPA experience worry or fear about a variety of things related to birth, caring for a newborn, and adjusting to life as a new mother.  

These worries can be intense and persistent, often interfering with daily life and the overall health of the mother and baby. Anxiety during the postpartum period can affect sleep patterns, increase the risk of developing depressive disorders, and strain family relationships. Early intervention and access to mental health care are essential for managing these symptoms effectively.

Common fears reported by new mothers include:

  • Juggling multiple roles and daily responsibilities.
  • Lack of sleep and its impact on their mental health.
  • Financial stress related to childcare and maternity leave.
  • Baby’s health and safety, including excessive fears of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS).
  • Concerns about parenting skills and self-doubt.
  • Body image issues and physical recovery after childbirth.

It’s important to note that fathers and non-birthing parents may also experience anxiety after welcoming a new baby. While we recognize that all parents can be impacted by PPA, for this article, we use the term “mother” and focus on research conducted on birthing women. Understanding the risk factors and ensuring access to treatment can help the entire family navigate this important period.

Differentiating Between Baby Blues, Postpartum Depression, and Postpartum Anxiety

Maternal mental health is complex, with several conditions that can affect women after childbirth. Understanding the nuanced differences between baby blues, postpartum depression (PPD), and postpartum anxiety (PPA) is crucial for proper recognition and treatment.

The key difference between PPD and PPA is the primary symptoms. For mothers with PPD, the main symptom is a sad mood that persists nearly every day, while for mothers with PPA, the main symptom is chronic worry or fear.

Baby Blues

Baby blues represent the mildest form of postpartum mood challenges. Typically lasting from a few days to two weeks after childbirth, this condition is characterized by mood swings, mild anxiety, and irritability. Mothers experiencing baby blues may feel sad, cry unexpectedly, and struggle with feelings of being overwhelmed. However, these symptoms are generally temporary and usually resolve on their own without intensive intervention.

Postpartum Depression

Postpartum depression is a more serious condition that extends beyond the initial weeks after childbirth. Lasting potentially up to a year or longer, PPD involves a persistent depressed mood and significant emotional challenges. Women with PPD often experience profound sadness, a notable loss of interest in activities they previously enjoyed, and substantial changes in appetite and sleep patterns. They may also struggle to bond with their newborn and feel an overwhelming sense of hopelessness. Unlike baby blues, PPD requires professional help and comprehensive treatment.

Postpartum Anxiety

Postpartum anxiety manifests as excessive worry, intense nervousness, and persistent fear. Similar to PPD in duration, PPA can last up to a year or longer. Mothers with PPA frequently experience racing thoughts, profound restlessness, and physical symptoms of anxiety. While the intensity can range from mild to severe, professional intervention is typically recommended to help manage these symptoms effectively.

Interconnected Conditions

Importantly, these conditions are not mutually exclusive. Research indicates that approximately two out of every three women diagnosed with postpartum depression also experience postpartum anxiety. This significant overlap means that many mothers may simultaneously navigate multiple emotional challenges.

The good news is that treatments for both PPD and PPA are often similar. A comprehensive, compassionate approach that may include therapy, support groups, lifestyle modifications, and sometimes medication can help mothers successfully manage these conditions and enjoy their motherhood journey.

 

What are the Signs and Symptoms of Postpartum Anxiety?

Postpartum anxiety manifests through various physical, emotional, and behavioral symptoms: 

Emotional Symptoms

  • Persistent and excessive worry, often about the baby's health and safety
  • Racing thoughts that feel uncontrollable and often focus on worst-case scenarios
  • Irritability and mood swings triggered by even minor stressors
  • Feeling on edge or unable to relax
  • Sense of dread or impending doom

Physical Symptoms

  • Disrupted sleep, even when the baby is asleep
  • Increased heart rate and palpitations
  • Shortness of breath
  • Nausea or stomach pain
  • Muscle tension and fatigue
  • Low energy levels and exhaustion

Behavioral Symptoms

  • Hypervigilance about the baby's safety
  • Repetitive checking behaviors (repeatedly checking if the baby is breathing)
  • Avoidance of certain situations or places
  • Poor focus and concentration, making daily tasks difficult
  • Seeking constant reassurance

Panic Attacks in Postpartum Anxiety

Some mothers with PPA may experience panic attacks —episodes of intense fear or discomfort that often feel like they come out of nowhere. During a panic attack, a mother may experience:

  • Heart palpitations or rapid heartbeat
  • Sweating, chills, and shaking
  • Shortness of breath and dizziness
  • Chest pain or tightness
  • Nausea or stomach pain
  • Fear of losing control or dying
  • Numbness or tingling
  • A sense of being detached from oneself or reality

While panic attacks typically last only a few minutes, they can be extremely frightening. Mothers who experience panic attacks may develop anticipatory anxiety, fearing future attacks and avoiding places or situations where they occurred previously.

Is it normal to have scary thoughts?

Yes, as many as 90% of new mothers experience intrusive thoughts . These are distressing ideas or images that can appear suddenly and feel outside of one's control. During the postpartum period, these thoughts often involve something bad happening to the baby and may be violent or sexual in nature.

It's common for mothers to feel guilty or ashamed of these thoughts, but it's important to understand that having intrusive thoughts does not mean you'll act on them and that intrusive thoughts do not define you. These thoughts are a symptom of anxiety, not an indication of your character or parenting abilities.

If you're experiencing distressing intrusive thoughts, professional help through cognitive behavioral therapy can provide strategies to manage them effectively.

Common Fears Reported by New Mothers

Mothers with PPA often experience worry or fear about various aspects of parenthood:

  • Balancing multiple roles and daily responsibilities
  • Lack of sleep and its impact on mental health
  • Financial stress related to childcare and maternity leave
  • Baby's health and safety, including excessive fears of SIDS
  • Concerns about parenting skills and self-doubt
  • Body image issues and physical recovery after childbirth
  • Breastfeeding/chestfeeding challenges, including latching and milk supply concerns
  • Fears about not bonding properly with the baby

Causes and Risk Factors of Postpartum Anxiety

 The exact causes of PPA aren't fully understood, but experts believe it results from a combination of factors including hormonal changes, genetic factors, and the stress of adjusting to parenthood. From an evolutionary perspective, moderate amounts of anxiety are adaptive during the postpartum period. Anxiety can keep parents alert to threats and motivate them to take action to protect their babies. The problem arises when anxiety becomes severe enough to affect a parent’s health and functioning.

Biological Factors

  • Hormonal fluctuations after childbirth (sharp drops in estrogen and progesterone)
  • Physical recovery from childbirth
  • Sleep deprivation and exhaustion

Psychological Factors

  • History of anxiety or depression
  • Perfectionism or high personal expectations
  • Previous trauma or difficult birth experience
  • Feeling a lack of control during labor and delivery

Social Factors

  • Lack of social support
  • Relationship or marital conflict
  • Financial stress
  • Major life changes and adjustments to parenthood

Risk Factors

Risk factors are characteristics or events that increase the likelihood of developing postpartum anxiety, including:

  • Anxiety or depression during pregnancy
  • Personal or family history of anxiety or mood disorders
  • Previous pregnancy loss
  • Premature birth or health concerns with the baby
  • Traumatic birth experience
  • Cesarean section delivery
  • History of previous trauma
  • Thyroid imbalances
  • Lack of social support
  • Stressful life events during pregnancy or after birth

Having more risk factors increases the chance of developing PPA, but it's also possible to develop this condition without any identified risk factors. Keep reading to learn about treatment options and strategies for coping with symptoms.

Effective Treatment for Postpartum Anxiety

 Postpartum anxiety is highly treatable. Various evidence-based approaches can help manage symptoms and support recovery:

Therapy

Like treatment for postpartum depression, the most effective treatment for postpartum anxiety is therapy. There are many different types of therapy available, but a specific type of therapy called cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is effective for treating PPA. CBT focuses on how a person’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are connected. It assumes that negative emotions, like anxiety, are tied to a person’s thoughts. One of the main goals of CBT is to identify and change thought patterns that contribute to negative emotions.

CBT can help you:

  • Identify and challenge anxious thoughts
  • Develop coping strategies for managing anxiety symptoms
  • Learn relaxation techniques
  • Address specific fears and worries
  • Build confidence in parenting abilities

Interpersonal Therapy (IPT) is another effective approach that focuses on improving interpersonal relationships and social functioning, which can be particularly helpful for new mothers navigating role transitions. 

Medication

Mothers with moderate to severe anxiety may also benefit from medication. A type of antidepressant called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) may be prescribed for anxiety during the postpartum period. Other types of medications may also be prescribed to alleviate panic attack symptoms.

  • Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs) are commonly prescribed for anxiety during the postpartum period.
  • Serotonin-Norepinephrine Reuptake Inhibitors (SNRIs) may also be used in some cases.
  • Other medications may be prescribed to alleviate panic attack symptoms.

Many mothers understandably have apprehension about taking medication for their anxiety. They are often concerned about whether it is safe to take medication while breastfeeding or if they become pregnant again. They may also worry that medication could be addictive or have a numbing effect. Because of the complexities of prescribing medication during the perinatal period, mothers must work with a psychiatric provider who is trained in this area. They can conduct a thorough evaluation to determine whether medication is right for you and help you consider the pros and cons. 

 

Self-Care Strategies and Lifestyle Changes

In addition to professional treatment, several self-care strategies can help manage postpartum anxiety:

Adjust Expectations

  • Lower your expectations for yourself during this time
  • Give yourself permission to do less
  • Remember that your worth is not tied to productivity

Delegate and Accept Help

  • Allow others to help with household tasks and baby care
  • Don't expect yourself to do everything

Incorporate Movement

  • Regular physical activity can reduce anxiety symptoms
  • Start with gentle walking or stretching once cleared by your healthcare provider
  • Aim for 30 minutes of movement a few times per week

Connect With Other Parents

  • Join a support group for new parents
  • Attend parent-and-baby classes
  • Connect with friends who have children

Nutrition and Diet

  • Maintain a balanced diet rich in whole foods
  • Consider foods high in omega-3 fatty acids (fish, walnuts, flaxseeds)
  • Limit caffeine, which can exacerbate anxiety symptoms
  • Stay hydrated

Sleep Hygiene

  • Prioritize sleep when possible
  • Establish a consistent sleep routine
  • Create a calming sleep environment
  • Consider taking turns with your partner for night feedings
  •  Suicidal thoughts or feelings

Natural Remedies & Lifestyle Changes for Postpartum Anxiety

Managing postpartum anxiety with natural remedies can be an effective complement to therapy or medication. Many mothers find that incorporating holistic practices into their daily routine helps reduce anxiety symptoms and promotes overall well-being.

As you explore these options, remember to consult with your healthcare provider to ensure that any new practices are safe and suitable for your unique needs. 

Mindfulness and Meditation

Practicing mindfulness helps you stay present and grounded, reducing the impact of racing thoughts and worries. Start with short, daily meditation sessions to ease into a more focused and calm mindset. Over time, you may find that regular mindfulness practice significantly lowers your anxiety levels.

Deep Breathing Exercises

Deep breathing techniques activate your body's relaxation response, easing tension and stress. Methods such as diaphragmatic breathing or the 4-7-8 technique can be practiced anywhere, offering a quick and effective way to calm your nervous system during anxious moments.

A Balanced Diet

A nutritious, balanced diet is essential for both physical and mental health during the postpartum period. Eating a variety of whole foods—such as fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains—helps stabilize blood sugar levels and supports a balanced mood. Consult with a nutritionist for personalized advice to optimize your diet during the postpartum period.

Incorporating omega-3 fatty acids into your diet can benefit brain health and lower anxiety levels. Foods rich in omega-3s, such as fatty fish, walnuts, and flaxseeds, help reduce inflammation and support overall mental well-being. Consider discussing supplementation with your healthcare provider if needed.

Regular Physical Activity

Engaging in regular exercise—such as walking, jogging, or light resistance training—boosts endorphin levels and helps reduce stress hormones. Even gentle physical activity can improve your mood and energy levels over time.

Yoga offers a holistic approach by combining physical postures, deep breathing, and meditation. Whether you choose restorative or postnatal yoga, this practice can help relieve anxiety, enhance flexibility, and foster mindfulness.

Sleep Hygiene

Quality sleep is critical for mental health. Establish a consistent sleep schedule, create a relaxing bedtime routine, and minimize screen time before bed to improve sleep quality. A calm and dark sleep environment can make a significant difference in managing anxiety.

Journaling and Expressive Writing

Writing down your thoughts and feelings can help you process emotions and gain perspective. Whether you try gratitude journaling or simply note your daily experiences, expressive writing is a useful tool to reduce rumination and clear your mind.

Aromatherapy and Essential Oils

Aromatherapy with essential oils like lavender, chamomile, or bergamot can create a soothing atmosphere. Use a diffuser at home or add a few drops of your favorite oil to a warm bath for a calming sensory experience. Always ensure proper dilution and consult a professional if you’re breastfeeding.

Herbal Supplements

Herbal remedies, such as lemon balm or passionflower, have been traditionally used to ease anxiety. However, it's essential to consult with your healthcare provider before starting any herbal supplements to ensure they're safe for you during the postpartum period.

Social Support and Connection

Building a strong support network is vital. Join a postpartum support group, participate in online communities, or engage in local classes for new mothers. Sharing your experiences and challenges with others who understand can help reduce feelings of isolation.

Nature Exposure and Grounding Techniques

Spending time outdoors and connecting with nature can significantly reduce stress. Even a short daily walk in a park or time spent gardening can help lower anxiety levels by grounding you in the present moment.

Acupuncture and Alternative Therapies

Some mothers have found relief through acupuncture, which involves stimulating specific points on the body to balance energy flow. If you're interested in exploring this alternative therapy, seek out a certified practitioner experienced in working with postpartum clients.

Commonly asked questions

How long does postpartum anxiety last?

Many mothers wonder how long postpartum anxiety will persist. While symptoms typically begin within the first few weeks after birth, the duration varies. Some mothers experience anxiety for a few months, while others may struggle for a year or longer. Seeking professional treatment can significantly reduce the length and severity of symptoms.

Will postpartum anxiety go away on its own?

Postpartum anxiety may improve on its own over time, but it's not guaranteed. While some women may experience a reduction in symptoms as their hormone levels stabilize and they adjust to motherhood, others may find that their anxiety persists or even worsens without intervention. Seeking professional help, such as therapy or counseling, can be incredibly beneficial in managing and reducing symptoms. Early treatment not only helps alleviate anxiety but also supports overall well-being and mental health. If you’re struggling with postpartum anxiety, reaching out for support is an important step toward recovery.

Can fathers experience postpartum anxiety?

Yes, non-birthing parents including fathers can experience anxiety after welcoming a new baby. While this article focuses on research conducted with birthing women, all parents can benefit from the treatment approaches discussed.

Is it safe to take anxiety medication while breastfeeding?

Many anxiety medications are compatible with breastfeeding. A perinatal psychiatrist can help determine the safest options based on your specific situation, weighing the benefits of treatment against potential risks.

How to support a friend or partner with postpartum anxiety

Loved ones play a crucial role in helping a mother navigate postpartum anxiety. Practical ways to offer support include:

  • Encouraging her to seek help from a professional.
  • Offering to handle household tasks or baby care to give her a break.
  •  Listen without judgment or dismissing feelings 
  • Providing emotional reassurance without dismissing her feelings.
  • Learning more about postpartum anxiety to better understand her experience.
  • Attend appointments with them if they want company
  • Validate their experiences and feelings
  • Remind them that recovery is possible with proper support and treatment

Postpartum Anxiety vs. Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)

Although postpartum anxiety shares similarities with generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), they are different conditions. Postpartum anxiety is specifically tied to the postpartum period and often involves fears related to the baby. GAD, on the other hand, can occur at any stage of life and affects multiple aspects of daily living.

What to Do if Postpartum Anxiety Is Getting Worse

If your anxiety is intensifying or interfering with daily life, it’s important to seek support. Here’s what you can do:

  • Talk to a Professional – A therapist specializing in maternal mental health can help you develop coping strategies and provide guidance.
  • Prioritize Rest & Self-Care – Lack of sleep and exhaustion can make anxiety worse. Accept help from loved ones and carve out time for yourself.
  • Join a Support Group – Connecting with other moms who understand your struggles can reduce feelings of isolation.
  • Reach Out for Immediate Help – If you’re experiencing panic attacks, distressing thoughts, or feel overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to contact a mental health professional or crisis hotline.

Postpartum anxiety is treatable, and you don’t have to navigate it alone. Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

When to Seek Immediate Help for Postpartum Anxiety

While many cases of postpartum anxiety can be managed with therapy and support, knowing when to get immediate professional help for postpartum anxiety is crucual. Signs that require urgent attention include:

  • Severe panic attacks that interfere with daily functioning.
  • Inability to care for oneself or the baby.
  • Persistent intrusive thoughts of harm.
  • Symptoms that worsen rather than improve over time.

Why does partum anxiety occur?

Postpartum anxiety occurs due to a combination of hormonal changes, physical recovery from childbirth, and the emotional adjustment to motherhood. After giving birth, a woman's hormone levels fluctuate rapidly, which can contribute to feelings of anxiety. Additionally, the demands of caring for a newborn, lack of sleep, and the stress of adjusting to a new routine can overwhelm new mothers. Some women may also have a predisposition to anxiety disorders, making them more susceptible to experiencing postpartum anxiety. It's important to recognize that postpartum anxiety is a common condition, and seeking support through therapy or other resources can help manage and reduce symptoms. 

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Postpartum anxiety is the most common PMAD experienced by new mothers. Treatment can help you manage your symptoms and feel more in control of your own thoughts and feelings.

At Phoenix Health, we specialize in treating maternal mental health conditions like postpartum anxiety. Schedule an appointment with a maternal mental health specialist and start feeling better today.