You don't have to choose between who you are and who you became.
Therapists in New York
"Going back to work broke my heart. Staying home broke my identity. There's no winning."
+9 moreNo commitment. We'll confirm your coverage before your first session.
You might benefit from therapy if…
- ✓You're returning to work and the grief is bigger than you expected
- ✓You're a stay-at-home parent and you're losing your sense of self
- ✓You're going part-time and you feel like you're failing at both ends
- ✓Your career trajectory has changed and you're grieving the version that didn't happen
- ✓You're considering leaving your career and you can't tell if it's the right call or burnout talking
- ✓Your relationship has shifted around career decisions and there's tension underneath it
Dr. Emily Guarnotta
Psychologist & Founder
From our founder
Almost every working mother I see has carried the same quiet grief: that nobody warned her how impossible the choices would feel. There's no version of this that doesn't cost something. The work is being clear-eyed about the costs and choosing the version you can actually live with, instead of the one you think you're supposed to want.
What therapy looks like
Our Career & Motherhood specialists in New York
Most Phoenix Health therapists hold PMH-C certification — the gold standard in perinatal mental health.
Lyndsay Ward
LCSW, PMH-C
Lyndsay is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New York dedicated to guiding parents through the unique challenges and transitions found in every stage of the family-building journey.
Licensed in NY
Deborah Edelson
LCSW, PMH-C
With over 30 years of experience and specialized PMH-C credentials, Deborah brings deep wisdom and compassion to her work with parents navigating life's most vulnerable transitions in New York.
Licensed in NY
Jessica Rudzinski
LPC, LMHC, PMH-C
Jessica works with hopeful and current parents facing infertility, pregnancy loss, and postpartum transitions in South Carolina, New York, and Florida.
Licensed in SC, NY, FL
Alana Vicentini
LMHC, PMH-C
Alana is a bilingual licensed mental health counselor and perinatal mental health specialist who works with hopeful, expecting, and new parents across New York.
Licensed in NY
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Real clients. Real relief.
What our clients say about their experience.
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“"I kept trying to be fully present at work and fully present at home and I was doing neither well. I was in a meeting thinking about pickup and at pickup thinking about the presentation. My therapist helped me figure out what I was actually trying to prove and who I was trying to prove it to. Most of it was myself."”
— working mom of 2
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“"I was good at my job before I had my son and when I came back I felt like a different person wearing my old clothes. I couldn't hold a thought for more than thirty seconds. My confidence was gone. My therapist helped me understand that the cognitive load of new parenthood is real, and that I wasn't suddenly bad at what I'd spent fifteen years building."”
— mom returning to work
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“"Going back to work at twelve weeks felt like choosing something that wanted me over something that needed me. I cried in the parking lot for the first month. My therapist helped me stop framing it as abandonment and start seeing it as modeling something for my daughter. That didn't make it easy. It made it survivable."”
— working mom
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“I went back to work at 12 weeks and cried in the parking lot for a month. My therapist helped me figure out what actually needed to change and what was just the grief of the transition. I stayed in the job, but on different terms. It was the right call.”
— Olivia, working mom of one
Expert care.
Covered in New York.
- ✓Aetna (incl. CVS Health, First Health, & Meritain)
- ✓BCBS (incl. Anthem, Blue Cross, Blue Shield, & state plans)
- ✓Cigna / Evernorth
- ✓United Healthcare (UHC) / Optum (incl. UBH, UMR, Surest, Oscar, & Oxford)
- ✓EmblemHealth (GHI / HIP)
- ✓Fidelis Care / Ambetter (including Medicaid)
- ✓Northwell Direct
Most clients pay less than $20 per session.
Accepted Insurance Networks
Mental health parity in New York
New York has some of the strongest mental health parity protections in the country. The New York State Mental Health and Substance Use Disorder Parity Law (and Timothy's Law for employer plans) prohibits insurers from imposing visit limits on mental health services and requires coverage at parity with medical care. The PARITY Act further strengthened enforcement. New York insurers cannot require prior authorization for initial mental health visits, cannot limit sessions to a fixed annual number, and cannot charge higher copays for mental health than for comparable medical specialist visits. File complaints with the New York Department of Financial Services.
Crisis support: New York State Hopeline — 1-800-HOPENY (467-3691)
Ready to start Career & Motherhood therapy? Here’s how it works.
The whole process takes about 5 minutes. We handle insurance — you just show up.
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Book your free call
A quick 15-minute chat to hear what you're going through, answer your questions, and make sure we're a great fit for your needs. No cost, no commitment.
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Get matched
We'll pair you with the right specialist for your specific situation. We'll also check your insurance, so you know your exact cost per session before moving forward.
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Start your first session
Meet your therapist from the comfort of home. No commute, no waiting rooms, no judgment. Most clients notice a real difference within just 2 to 3 sessions.
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Common questions
- That's not a question therapy answers for you, but it's exactly the kind of question therapy helps you answer. The work involves separating what you actually want from what you think you're supposed to want, looking at the realities of money, childcare, and your partner, and making a decision you can stand behind.
- That's a clinical question worth taking seriously. Sometimes the work environment is genuinely toxic for someone in a depression flare. Sometimes work is a stabilizer. A perinatal therapist can help you tell the difference and figure out what kind of accommodation or change is needed.
- Not necessarily. Many people experience grief and identity disruption after leaving a career, even when the choice was right for the family. Therapy can help you process the loss without locking you into reversing the decision, and sometimes it leads to discovering that something needs to change.
- Yes. This is one of the most common couples' fights in the parenting years, and it usually requires structured conversation rather than reactive arguments. Individual therapy or couples work, often both, can move it.
- Yes. Phoenix Health provides telehealth therapy to residents of New York. Sessions are conducted via secure video from your home, office, or anywhere private — no commute required. All Phoenix Health therapists are licensed and authorized to practice in New York.
- PMH-C (Perinatal Mental Health Certification) is awarded by Postpartum Support International (PSI) to clinicians who have completed advanced training in perinatal mental health — covering postpartum depression, anxiety, OCD, birth trauma, and related conditions. It represents the gold standard of specialization in this field.
- If you're struggling — with your mood, your thoughts, your relationship, or just how you're coping — that's enough of a reason to talk to someone. You don't need a diagnosis. A free consultation is a low-commitment first step.
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