This road is harder than anyone tells you it will be.
Therapists in New York
"Every month is a cycle of hope and grief. Nobody warns you it's this hard."
Infertility affects 1 in 8 couples — the emotional toll is comparable to a cancer diagnosis.
+9 moreNo commitment. We'll confirm your coverage before your first session.
You might benefit from therapy if…
- ✓You've been trying to conceive for months or years and the emotional weight is becoming hard to carry
- ✓You're dreading social events, baby announcements, or pregnancy reveals from friends
- ✓Your relationship has changed under the pressure, and intimacy doesn't feel like intimacy anymore
- ✓You feel angry at your body, at your partner, or at people who got pregnant easily
- ✓You're isolating from people who don't understand, and that isolation is making it harder
- ✓You're holding it together for work and family and you're exhausted from the performance
Dr. Emily Guarnotta
Psychologist & Founder
From our founder
Infertility is one of the most underestimated experiences in my practice. The cumulative weight of each month, each appointment, each negative test, is enormous, and most people are carrying it without anyone really seeing it. Therapy doesn't shorten the road. It does change what it's like to walk it.
What therapy looks like
Our Infertility specialists in New York
Most Phoenix Health therapists hold PMH-C certification — the gold standard in perinatal mental health.
Lyndsay Ward
LCSW, PMH-C
Lyndsay is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New York dedicated to guiding parents through the unique challenges and transitions found in every stage of the family-building journey.
Licensed in NY
Deborah Edelson
LCSW, PMH-C
With over 30 years of experience and specialized PMH-C credentials, Deborah brings deep wisdom and compassion to her work with parents navigating life's most vulnerable transitions in New York.
Licensed in NY
Jessica Rudzinski
LPC, LMHC, PMH-C
Jessica works with hopeful and current parents facing infertility, pregnancy loss, and postpartum transitions in South Carolina, New York, and Florida.
Licensed in SC, NY, FL
Alana Vicentini
LMHC, PMH-C
Alana is a bilingual licensed mental health counselor and perinatal mental health specialist who works with hopeful, expecting, and new parents across New York.
Licensed in NY
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Real clients. Real relief.
What our clients say about their experience.
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“"What nobody tells you about infertility is that it changes how you see pregnant people. I couldn't go to baby showers. I hid from social media. I felt like a horrible person for feeling what I was feeling. My therapist helped me understand that grief doesn't follow rules and that I was allowed to feel all of it without shame."”
— TTC, 2 years
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“Two years of treatments and nobody talked about what it does to your relationship, your identity, your sense of self. I felt like my body had failed me. My therapist helped me separate my worth from my fertility, and helped my husband and I find each other again in the middle of it. Still trying. Feeling more like myself than I have in years.”
— TTC, 3 years
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“My emergency C-section left me with nightmares and panic attacks. I couldn't talk about the birth without shaking. Therapy helped me process the trauma and reclaim my story. I'm pregnant again now, and I actually feel ready.”
— expecting mom of 1
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“I had stopped telling people we were trying because I couldn't handle one more well-meaning comment. My therapist understood the language and the timing, and I never had to explain a single thing twice. After six months I felt like I had my life back, even though we were still in treatment.”
— Nina, in treatment 2 years
Expert care.
Covered in New York.
- ✓Aetna (incl. CVS Health, First Health, & Meritain)
- ✓BCBS (incl. Anthem, Blue Cross, Blue Shield, & state plans)
- ✓Cigna / Evernorth
- ✓United Healthcare (UHC) / Optum (incl. UBH, UMR, Surest, Oscar, & Oxford)
- ✓EmblemHealth (GHI / HIP)
- ✓Fidelis Care / Ambetter (including Medicaid)
- ✓Northwell Direct
Most clients pay less than $20 per session.
Accepted Insurance Networks
Mental health parity in New York
New York has some of the strongest mental health parity protections in the country. The New York State Mental Health and Substance Use Disorder Parity Law (and Timothy's Law for employer plans) prohibits insurers from imposing visit limits on mental health services and requires coverage at parity with medical care. The PARITY Act further strengthened enforcement. New York insurers cannot require prior authorization for initial mental health visits, cannot limit sessions to a fixed annual number, and cannot charge higher copays for mental health than for comparable medical specialist visits. File complaints with the New York Department of Financial Services.
Crisis support: New York State Hopeline — 1-800-HOPENY (467-3691)
Ready to start Infertility therapy? Here’s how it works.
The whole process takes about 5 minutes. We handle insurance — you just show up.
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Book your free call
A quick 15-minute chat to hear what you're going through, answer your questions, and make sure we're a great fit for your needs. No cost, no commitment.
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Get matched
We'll pair you with the right specialist for your specific situation. We'll also check your insurance, so you know your exact cost per session before moving forward.
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Start your first session
Meet your therapist from the comfort of home. No commute, no waiting rooms, no judgment. Most clients notice a real difference within just 2 to 3 sessions.
No commitment · Most insurance accepted · Available this week
Common questions
- It helps. A generalist may inadvertently say things that don't land well. A therapist trained in reproductive mental health understands the medical timeline, the language, the relationship strain, and the specific kind of grief that infertility produces.
- Yes, and it's also something therapy can help with directly. Infertility puts couples under sustained pressure, and partners often process it differently. Individual therapy can help, and sometimes couples work added in is the right call.
- No. Setting limits on what you can attend is a reasonable response to grief, and your therapist can help you figure out how to communicate that without losing relationships you care about. It is not a moral failing to take care of yourself.
- Therapy is not a fertility treatment. What therapy does is reduce the stress, isolation, and depression that come with infertility, which improves quality of life during a very hard chapter. Some research suggests that lower distress may have modest effects on treatment outcomes, but the primary value is in how you live, not in the outcome.
- Yes. Phoenix Health provides telehealth therapy to residents of New York. Sessions are conducted via secure video from your home, office, or anywhere private — no commute required. All Phoenix Health therapists are licensed and authorized to practice in New York.
- PMH-C (Perinatal Mental Health Certification) is awarded by Postpartum Support International (PSI) to clinicians who have completed advanced training in perinatal mental health — covering postpartum depression, anxiety, OCD, birth trauma, and related conditions. It represents the gold standard of specialization in this field.
- If you're struggling — with your mood, your thoughts, your relationship, or just how you're coping — that's enough of a reason to talk to someone. You don't need a diagnosis. A free consultation is a low-commitment first step.
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Learning resources
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