This road is harder than anyone tells you it will be.
Therapists in Brooklyn, New York
"Every month is a cycle of hope and grief. Nobody warns you it's this hard."
Infertility affects 1 in 8 couples — the emotional toll is comparable to a cancer diagnosis.
+9 moreNo commitment. We'll confirm your coverage before your first session.
Virtual therapy for Brooklyn families
You know what postpartum depression is. You've read the books. You have a therapist friend. You are still surprised by how hard the actual experience of it has been, and you're still putting off finding help because the logistics feel impossible with a baby. Brooklyn parents describe this exact pattern constantly. From Williamsburg and Park Slope to Crown Heights, Bed-Stuy, Greenpoint, and DUMBO, new parents are well-informed and still under-supported. Childcare for an in-person appointment is its own logistical nightmare. Insurance networks are confusing. The voice in your head says it's not bad enough yet, and the months tick by. Phoenix Health therapists hold PMH-C certification, the specialty credential in perinatal mental health, and see Brooklyn families entirely by secure video. No stroller on the F train. No babysitter for an office visit. We specialize in postpartum depression, perinatal anxiety, birth trauma, and pregnancy loss, and we work with your insurance. Getting started is one form.
Brooklyn neighborhoods: Williamsburg · Park Slope · Crown Heights · Bed-Stuy · Greenpoint · DUMBO
You might benefit from therapy if…
- ✓You've been trying to conceive for months or years and the emotional weight is becoming hard to carry
- ✓You're dreading social events, baby announcements, or pregnancy reveals from friends
- ✓Your relationship has changed under the pressure, and intimacy doesn't feel like intimacy anymore
- ✓You feel angry at your body, at your partner, or at people who got pregnant easily
- ✓You're isolating from people who don't understand, and that isolation is making it harder
- ✓You're holding it together for work and family and you're exhausted from the performance
Dr. Emily Guarnotta
Psychologist & Founder
From our founder
Infertility is one of the most underestimated experiences in my practice. The cumulative weight of each month, each appointment, each negative test, is enormous, and most people are carrying it without anyone really seeing it. Therapy doesn't shorten the road. It does change what it's like to walk it.
What therapy looks like
Our Infertility specialists in Brooklyn, New York
Most Phoenix Health therapists hold PMH-C certification — the gold standard in perinatal mental health.
Lyndsay Ward
LCSW, PMH-C · Licensed therapist
An attachment theory expert who helps you unpack how your childhood shows up in your parenting.
Licensed in NY
Golda Fleischman
LMSW · Licensed therapist
A birth doula before she was a therapist, she helps you prepare for a birth or process a hard one.
Licensed in NY
Deborah Edelson
LCSW, PMH-C · Licensed therapist
30+ years in practice, and still no one-size-fits-all: "You are the expert on your own life."
Licensed in NY
Jessica Rudzinski
LPC, LMHC, PMH-C · Licensed therapist
A postpartum depression survivor herself, with a decade supporting families in their own homes.
Licensed in SC, NY, FL
Real clients. Real relief.
What our clients say about their experience.
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“"What nobody tells you about infertility is that it changes how you see pregnant people. I couldn't go to baby showers. I hid from social media. I felt like a horrible person for feeling what I was feeling. My therapist helped me understand that grief doesn't follow rules and that I was allowed to feel all of it without shame."”
— TTC, 2 years
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“Two years of treatments and nobody talked about what it does to your relationship, your identity, your sense of self. I felt like my body had failed me. My therapist helped me separate my worth from my fertility, and helped my husband and I find each other again in the middle of it. Still trying. Feeling more like myself than I have in years.”
— TTC, 3 years
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“My emergency C-section left me with nightmares and panic attacks. I couldn't talk about the birth without shaking. Therapy helped me process the trauma and reclaim my story. I'm pregnant again now, and I actually feel ready.”
— expecting mom of 1
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“I had stopped telling people we were trying because I couldn't handle one more well-meaning comment. My therapist understood the language and the timing, and I never had to explain a single thing twice. After six months I felt like I had my life back, even though we were still in treatment.”
— Nina, in treatment 2 years
Expert care.
Covered in New York.
- ✓Aetna (incl. CVS Health, First Health, & Meritain)
- ✓BCBS (incl. Anthem, Blue Cross, Blue Shield, & state plans)
- ✓Cigna / Evernorth
- ✓United Healthcare (UHC) / Optum (incl. UBH, UMR, Surest, Oscar, & Oxford)
- ✓EmblemHealth (GHI / HIP)
- ✓Fidelis Care / Ambetter (including Medicaid)
- ✓Northwell Direct
Most clients pay less than $20 per session.
Accepted Insurance Networks
Ready to start Infertility therapy? Here’s how it works.
The whole process takes about 5 minutes. We handle insurance — you just show up.
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Book your free call
A quick 15-minute chat to hear what you're going through, answer your questions, and make sure we're a great fit for your needs. No cost, no commitment.
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Get matched
We'll pair you with the right specialist for your specific situation. We'll also check your insurance, so you know your exact cost per session before moving forward.
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Start your first session
Meet your therapist from the comfort of home. No commute, no waiting rooms, no judgment. Most clients notice a real difference within just 2 to 3 sessions.
No commitment · Most insurance accepted · Available this week
Common questions
- It helps. A generalist may inadvertently say things that don't land well. A therapist trained in reproductive mental health understands the medical timeline, the language, the relationship strain, and the specific kind of grief that infertility produces.
- Yes, and it's also something therapy can help with directly. Infertility puts couples under sustained pressure, and partners often process it differently. Individual therapy can help, and sometimes couples work added in is the right call.
- No. Setting limits on what you can attend is a reasonable response to grief, and your therapist can help you figure out how to communicate that without losing relationships you care about. It is not a moral failing to take care of yourself.
- Therapy is not a fertility treatment. What therapy does is reduce the stress, isolation, and depression that come with infertility, which improves quality of life during a very hard chapter. Some research suggests that lower distress may have modest effects on treatment outcomes, but the primary value is in how you live, not in the outcome.
- Yes. Phoenix Health provides telehealth therapy to residents of New York. Sessions are conducted via secure video from your home, office, or anywhere private — no commute required. All Phoenix Health therapists are licensed and authorized to practice in New York.
- PMH-C (Perinatal Mental Health Certification) is awarded by Postpartum Support International (PSI) to clinicians who have completed advanced training in perinatal mental health — covering postpartum depression, anxiety, OCD, birth trauma, and related conditions. It represents the gold standard of specialization in this field.
- If you're struggling — with your mood, your thoughts, your relationship, or just how you're coping — that's enough of a reason to talk to someone. You don't need a diagnosis. A free consultation is a low-commitment first step.
From the Phoenix Health resource center
Articles and guides about infertility
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OBs, doulas, and pediatricians refer their patients to us because we specialize in maternal mental health.
The sooner you start,
the sooner you'll
feel like yourself again.
You've been surviving. It's time to start healing.
No commitment · Covered by insurance · Available this week
Learning resources
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