Relationships & Couples therapy covered by Ascension
"We used to be close. Now we're just coparenting strangers."
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Using your Ascension benefits
Phoenix Health is out-of-network with Ascension, and that matters less than it sounds. You can still see a PMH-C certified perinatal specialist here; the difference is how the money moves. You pay us directly, and once a month we issue a superbill — an itemized receipt with the diagnosis and procedure codes your plan needs — which you submit to Ascension for reimbursement against your out-of-network behavioral health benefits. Ascension is a Catholic health system that sells plans mainly in the markets where it runs hospitals, and those plans tend to be narrow network, so how much comes back to you varies more than it would with a national carrier. We find out what your specific plan reimburses before your first session rather than after. Our clinicians treat postpartum depression, perinatal anxiety, birth trauma, and pregnancy loss, and sessions are FSA and HSA eligible whether or not Ascension reimburses them.
Does Ascension cover couples therapy after having a baby?
This is the one where the answer is genuinely 'it depends', and it is worth understanding why. Insurers pay to treat a diagnosed condition in one identified patient, not to improve a relationship. Counseling billed purely for relationship distress (coded Z63.0) is excluded from most Ascension plans. But when one partner has a diagnosable condition -- postpartum depression, perinatal anxiety, PTSD after a traumatic birth -- and the other partner takes part in treating it, that session is billable as family psychotherapy with the patient present (CPT 90847) under that partner's behavioral health benefit. In practice most postpartum couples work we do falls in the second category, because one partner is usually carrying a perinatal mood or anxiety disorder. We determine which applies at the assessment and tell you before you are charged, rather than letting you discover it on an EOB.
Phoenix Health is out-of-network with Ascension: you pay us directly and we issue a superbill once a month — not after each session — which you submit for reimbursement against your out-of-network behavioral health benefits. You pay Phoenix Health directly and we issue a superbill once a month that you submit to Ascension against your out-of-network benefits. Ascension Personalized Care plans are generally narrow-network products built around Ascension's own hospitals, so out-of-network reimbursement varies widely and some plans reimburse nothing outside the network. Confirm before you start. Sessions are FSA and HSA eligible regardless of what your plan reimburses.
Checking it yourself: Call the member services number on your Ascension card and ask: do I have out-of-network outpatient behavioral health benefits, what is my out-of-network deductible, and what share of the allowed amount is reimbursed? We run this check for you before your first session at no charge.
Your card might say any of these — all of them are Ascension:
✓ Out-of-network with superbill
You pay us directly, and we issue a superbill once a month that you submit to your plan for reimbursement.
✓ Benefits verified upfront
We confirm your copay and deductible before your first session, at no charge.
✓ Telehealth covered
Your plan covers virtual sessions at the same rate as in-person specialist visits.
You might benefit from therapy if…
- ✓You've gone from partners to coparents and you don't know how to get back to each other
- ✓You're fighting about the same things over and over: chores, sleep, time, attention
- ✓You feel invisible to your partner, or like they're invisible to you
- ✓You've lost intimacy and you're not sure how to talk about it
- ✓You're resentful in ways that scare you a little
- ✓One or both of you is depressed or anxious and it's spilling into the relationship
Dr. Emily Guarnotta
Psychologist & Founder
From our founder
Almost every couple I see in the postpartum phase tells me some version of the same story: we used to be close, and now we feel like roommates. That's not a verdict on your relationship. It's a description of what this phase does. The couples who do the work usually come out closer than they were before, and that's why I love this part of the practice.
What therapy looks like
Our Relationships & Couples specialists who accept Ascension
Most Phoenix Health therapists hold PMH-C certification — the gold standard in perinatal mental health.
Amanda Flowers
LPC, PMH-C · Licensed therapist
Works with perinatal OCD and neurodivergence, using body-based tools to calm the nervous system.
Licensed in TX, MT
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Natalia Cruz Navarro
EspañolLCSW · Licensed therapist
12+ years with families through high-risk pregnancies, fetal diagnoses, and NICU stays.
Licensed in CA
Lyndsay Ward
LCSW, PMH-C · Licensed therapist
An attachment theory expert who helps you unpack how your childhood shows up in your parenting.
Licensed in NY
Golda Fleischman
LMSW · Licensed therapist
A birth doula before she was a therapist, she helps you prepare for a birth or process a hard one.
Licensed in NY
Stories that may sound familiar
These are examples, not client reviews. We don't publish our clients' words. What's said in therapy stays there.
“"After our daughter arrived, neither of us knew how to talk about what had changed between us without it becoming a fight. Our therapist helped us understand that connection after a baby looks completely different, and that waiting for things to go back to how they were wasn't going to work. We had to build something new."”
“"Nobody told me the baby would bring up every unresolved thing in our relationship at once. Old fights I thought we were past. Patterns from our own families. Who I thought my partner would be as a parent versus who he actually was. Our couples therapist helped us figure out what we were actually arguing about instead of just circling the same argument."”
“"We went from a team to two separate people managing a crisis in the same house. I was keeping score without realizing it. She was exhausted in ways I couldn't see. Working with a therapist together helped us stop talking past each other and start talking to each other again. We're not the same couple we were before. We're better."”
“We were having the same fight every Sunday night for six months. Once we started couples work I realized we were both saying the same thing in different words. We needed someone to translate. It changed everything.”
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Most clients pay less than $20 per session.
Accepted Insurance Networks
Your rights under federal parity law
Under the Mental Health Parity and Addiction Equity Act (MHPAEA), your insurer cannot impose more restrictive limits on mental health coverage than on comparable medical or surgical benefits.
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Common questions
- This is the one where the answer is genuinely 'it depends', and it is worth understanding why. Insurers pay to treat a diagnosed condition in one identified patient, not to improve a relationship. Counseling billed purely for relationship distress (coded Z63.0) is excluded from most Ascension plans. But when one partner has a diagnosable condition -- postpartum depression, perinatal anxiety, PTSD after a traumatic birth -- and the other partner takes part in treating it, that session is billable as family psychotherapy with the patient present (CPT 90847) under that partner's behavioral health benefit. In practice most postpartum couples work we do falls in the second category, because one partner is usually carrying a perinatal mood or anxiety disorder. We determine which applies at the assessment and tell you before you are charged, rather than letting you discover it on an EOB. Phoenix Health is out-of-network with Ascension: you pay us directly and we issue a superbill once a month — not after each session — which you submit for reimbursement against your out-of-network behavioral health benefits. You pay Phoenix Health directly and we issue a superbill once a month that you submit to Ascension against your out-of-network benefits. Ascension Personalized Care plans are generally narrow-network products built around Ascension's own hospitals, so out-of-network reimbursement varies widely and some plans reimburse nothing outside the network. Confirm before you start. Sessions are FSA and HSA eligible regardless of what your plan reimburses.
- It is extremely common, and that doesn't mean it's healthy to leave it alone. Most couples see a real dip in relationship satisfaction in the first year postpartum. Couples who get support tend to recover faster and more thoroughly than couples who try to wait it out.
- Individual therapy can still make a meaningful difference. Often when one partner starts doing their own work, the dynamic shifts enough that the other becomes more open. And many things that feel like couple problems are actually individual stress that's spilling over.
- Often both. For most couples in this phase, individual therapy for the partner who's struggling most (or both partners) alongside couples work is the most effective combination. Your therapist can help you decide what makes sense.
- Intimacy after a baby is its own area of work, and it usually doesn't fix itself. Many couples find that the emotional repair has to happen first, and then physical intimacy follows. Talking about it explicitly with a therapist makes it much more likely to come back.
- PMH-C (Perinatal Mental Health Certification) is awarded by Postpartum Support International (PSI) to clinicians who have completed advanced training in perinatal mental health — covering postpartum depression, anxiety, OCD, birth trauma, and related conditions. It represents the gold standard of specialization in this field.
- If you're struggling — with your mood, your thoughts, your relationship, or just how you're coping — that's enough of a reason to talk to someone. You don't need a diagnosis. A free consultation is a low-commitment first step.
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