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Your birth experience still has its grip on you.

"My birth experience left me shaken. I can't stop replaying it."

An estimated 1 in 3 women describe their birth experience as traumatic.

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The birth is over. But something about it won't let you go. You replay it, avoid talking about it, feel your heart race when you pass the hospital, or feel rage you can't fully explain. What happened to you during that birth matters — even if everyone else has moved on.

What you experienced is clinically recognized as birth trauma, and depending on how it's affecting you, it may also meet criteria for postpartum PTSD. Learn more about Birth Trauma therapy →

You might benefit from therapy if…

  • You replay moments from the birth over and over, or specific memories come back uninvited
  • You feel angry at the doctors, nurses, or your own body for what happened
  • Talking about the birth still makes your heart race
  • You feel disconnected from your baby, yourself, or your body since the birth
  • The idea of having another baby fills you with dread
Dr. Emily Guarnotta

Dr. Emily Guarnotta

Psychologist & Founder

From our founder

When clients tell me their birth story, I never start by reassuring them their baby is healthy. They know that. What they need first is for someone to take what they went through seriously. Birth trauma is real, and the body remembers it even when the family album moves on. Healing the trauma is possible, and so is wanting more children after.

What therapy looks like

Therapy for birth trauma typically uses one of a few evidence-based approaches. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is widely used because it lets the brain reprocess what happened without you having to retell every detail over and over. Trauma-Focused CBT is another option, as is somatic work for the body memory that often outlasts the mental memory. Most Phoenix Health therapists hold PMH-C certification, and several have additional training in trauma. Early sessions focus on stabilization. Before any deep processing, you need to feel safe and resourced enough to do the work. That means learning to regulate your nervous system, identifying triggers, and putting tools in place so the work doesn't flood you. From there, the processing work happens at a pace you can manage. For uncomplicated birth trauma, many people see real improvement in 12 to 20 sessions. For more complex trauma, especially when the birth experience layered on top of older trauma, treatment may take longer. The goal isn't to forget what happened. It's to take away its grip on the present.

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What our clients say about their experience.

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"My emergency C-section left me with nightmares and panic attacks. I couldn't talk about the birth without shaking. Therapy helped me process the trauma and reclaim my story. I'm pregnant again now, and I actually feel ready."

expecting mom of 1

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Everyone kept saying at least the baby is healthy. I know they meant well. But I still had to live inside a body that went through something traumatic, and nobody seemed to think that mattered. My therapist was the first person who acknowledged both things could be true at once: that I could be grateful and also need to heal.

mom of 1

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My labor lasted 38 hours and ended in an emergency I wasn't prepared for. I couldn't tell the story without reliving it. My therapist used EMDR and something shifted. I could finally talk about what happened without leaving my body. I didn't know that was possible. I tell every pregnant person I know about perinatal therapy now.

mom of 3

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I avoided my OB's office for over a year. The first time I drove past the hospital without my stomach dropping, I cried in the car. EMDR sounded strange to me when she first described it. I am so glad I trusted the process.

Tasha, 18 months postpartum

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Ready to start Birth Trauma therapy? Here’s how it works.

The whole process takes about 5 minutes. We handle insurance — you just show up.

  1. 1

    Book your free call

    A quick 15-minute chat to hear what you're going through, answer your questions, and make sure we're a great fit for your needs. No cost, no commitment.

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    Get matched

    We'll pair you with the right specialist for your specific situation. We'll also check your insurance, so you know your exact cost per session before moving forward.

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    Start your first session

    Meet your therapist from the comfort of home. No commute, no waiting rooms, no judgment. Most clients notice a real difference within just 2 to 3 sessions.

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Common questions

  • Birth trauma is defined by how an event felt to you — not whether it looked 'bad' from the outside. Unexpected complications, feeling out of control, not being heard by providers, emergency procedures, or simply an experience that didn't match what you expected can all be traumatic.
  • Yes. Trauma-focused therapies like EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and trauma-informed CBT are effective for birth trauma. Phoenix Health therapists are trained in perinatal trauma and can work with you at a pace that feels safe.
  • Yes. Trauma is about how the event was experienced, not how it looks on paper. If you felt unheard, out of control, frightened for yourself or your baby, or violated in any way, your nervous system can encode that as traumatic. You don't need to justify your reaction to anyone, including yourself.
  • Not necessarily. EMDR and other modern trauma treatments don't require you to repeatedly narrate the event. Your therapist will pace the work and use approaches that let you process without re-traumatizing yourself.
  • Not exactly. Birth trauma is the broader term. Postpartum PTSD is a specific clinical diagnosis when symptoms reach a certain threshold, including intrusive memories, avoidance, hyperarousal, and negative shifts in mood. Many people have significant birth trauma without meeting full PTSD criteria, and they still benefit from trauma-informed therapy.
  • Yes, and this is one of the most rewarding pieces of work. Treating birth trauma before a next pregnancy can dramatically change how you experience the next birth. Many clients come in specifically to prepare, and it makes a real difference.
  • PMH-C (Perinatal Mental Health Certification) is awarded by Postpartum Support International (PSI) to clinicians who have completed advanced training in perinatal mental health — covering postpartum depression, anxiety, OCD, birth trauma, and related conditions. It represents the gold standard of specialization in this field.

From the Phoenix Health resource center

Articles and guides about birth trauma

Navigating the Emotional Waves of Preterm Birth

Having a baby arrive earlier than expected throws your world into a whirlwind of emotions. One moment you're anticipating the final weeks of pregnancy, and the next, you're navigating the unfamiliar, often overwhelming, environment of the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). The emotional impact of …

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Overcoming Tokophobia: Therapy for Fear of Childbirth

Pregnancy can be a time filled with excitement, anticipation, and maybe a few butterflies. But for some, the thought of childbirth brings more than just nerves – it triggers an overwhelming, intense fear known as tokophobia. If the idea of labor and delivery fills you with dread, panic, or a paralyz…

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Healing from an Unplanned C-Section: A Guide to Emotional Recovery

The moment a baby enters the world is meant to be one of pure joy. Yet, for many, the path to parenthood takes an unexpected turn through an unplanned or emergency cesarean section. If your birth experience left you feeling shocked, overwhelmed, profoundly sad, or even numb, you might be carrying th…

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Learning resources

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